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Rita Ott Ramstad's avatar

I'm so sorry it's all so difficult. I have just enough experience with all of it (overdoing and its aftermath , frustration, jealousy, guilt, internalized ableism, pain management classes, clueless "help" from others, people who just don't get it) to empathize deeply. I hope you can choose whatever will give you the most of the life you want to live. It is so short. We all deserve accommodations for our needs.

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Lisa Andradez's avatar

Oh Tamsin, I really relate to this, a lot. In fact you have ''stolen'' quite a lot of what I was going to write in my post today... (It''s ok, I forgive you!! ;)) For what it is worth, I think you should go for it with the power chair, you know you need it, and it will really impact your life for good, so sod anyone that tells you otherwise - including that damn ableist inside voice of yours!!! I am in the same boat at the moment, having used a mobility scooter a few weeks ago for a festival, I realised how much less energy it takes up compared to the stick, or even my rollator (which I HATE with a passion, but it helps, a bit). It is really shitty that they cost so much though, it really is the only thing holding me back from looking into them - I haven't even tried to look for one because I know, like you, I will find 'the ideal one' and not be able to afford it!! This shitty illness is bad enough without wasting mental exertion trying to work out what mobility aids we can afford - we deserve them as much as the next person, so what we still have our limbs, we still can't use them properly!!! Anyway, thanks for sharing, I am thankful for you, and others on here for being honest about the realities of chronic illness which we all live with, you've got this!!

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